Friday, November 1, 2013

A Different Perspective

crutchgiftI have always been a dreamer. When I became a social worker, I did so because I wanted to make a difference. My goal was to impact the lives of differently-abled children; I wanted each child that I worked with to know that they are not defined by what they cannot do or some obscure medical term. I wanted each child to know that they are cherished and valued. You see, I was born with Cerebral Palsy and walk with crutches.

I can’t lie. Life can be hard and there have certainly been times I have literally been in tears. I know what it’s like to be judged by others and to have to overcome obstacles and stereotypes. I have come to understand that the world is not always fair. Despite my best efforts to blend in and not be singled out for being different, people do indeed judge and at times try to set limits to what they think I can do. And now I’m going to admit something totally crazy, something that may not make sense to anyone at all… My disability, my crutches are a gift.

I have a new job. I love, LOVE my job, it’s my dream job. I now work at Whitestone School for Child Development, a CPSE preschool in Queens, NY. I have always dreamed of working in a preschool because I love children and I have always wanted to use my disability to positively impact others.

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I attended a CPSE preschool and know that I am where I am today, in part due to the services and early intervention I received there. While my memory of those days are fuzzy, I remember I loved it! I loved my teacher, Miss Jody (Yes, I still remember her name) and my therapists were also great! I had a lot of friends who were just like me and no one judged me, made fun of me or left me out.

When I entered kindergarten, I attended Henry Viscardi School; a school for the disabled founded by Dr. Henry Viscardi, who also had a disability. I remember seeing him in the hallways and hoping to one day be like him and help others. As I got older and truly understood how much he had done to advance and advocate for the rights of people with disabilities, the more convinced I became that I wanted to be like him and leave a mark.

There’s something that I was not prepared for…being denied opportunities because of my disability. I was raised in a family where I was no different than my siblings. My mother has always been my greatest ally and advocate but she also believed in being honest with me. “You have to work harder and do better because people will judge you” she’d tell me. Followed quickly by, “but you can do anything if you work hard enough.” While the first half of her statement always annoyed me, I always believed she was right, that I could do anything. I also went to amazing schools and had great teachers who also made sure I was never treated differently, so I grew up assuming that all of my dreams would come true as long as I did my best and worked to make my dreams reality. Reality isn’t that simple; people are not always nice. I’ve been on more than one interview where people made it quite obvious that my crutches made them uncomfortable. I quickly learned that my mother was right. It seemed to me that my dream of making a difference would never come true. Every time I thought I’d found the perfect job for me, I’d hit a brick wall. My crutches always seemed to get in the way, be the “elephant in the room.” I had always believed that I could do whatever I wanted and that if I worked hard enough, I could achieve my dreams. Out of my own naiveté I had never really seen my crutches as an issue. I am as independent as I can be and I have never let crutches stop me.

biopicI was beginning to question if I was ever going to be able to make a difference. I was ready to give up on my dream when I got the phone call to come in for an interview. Can I admit I was nervous? I was excited but hesitant. I was convinced I was going to hit another brick wall. Boy, was I shocked when two days after the interview I was offered the job!

You see, I have finally come full circle working at Whitestone School for Child Development. I am finally in a place where people don’t stare at me or refer to me as “the girl with the crutches,” I don’t have to explain myself. I walk into a classroom and all the children shout, “Hi, Laura! Come play!” The children know my name! I may never know how much of a difference I am making in their lives but I certainly hope that they all come to understand that they are amazing and so very capable of achieving their dreams. I hope that in my own way, I am giving back to all of those who gave to me, who helped me get to where I am today. I am truly more grateful than words can ever express! Now do you understand why I say my crutches are a gift? They don’t define me, they are not who I am. It is my hope that when people see me they see the person I am; someone who is truly happy and grateful for the opportunity to positively impact others and just maybe, leave a mark…yes, I still dream big!

Contributed by Laura Nunez

Friday, October 25, 2013

Animal/Pet Therapy

“In an age of research when it is tempting to reduce human emotions to biochemical reactions and to rely heavily on the technology of medicine, it is refreshing to find that a person’s health may be improved prescribing contact with other living things. Members of the health and allied professions must continue to combine resources, work together in the spirit of cooperation, and never forget to ‘cure when possible but comfort always.’ ”
~ Michael J. McCulloch, MD (1981), co-founder of Delta Society, now known as Pet Partners®



Boy Reading to BunnyAlthough intuitively known for thousands of years, the benefits of interacting with pets has only been scientifically studied beginning in the latter half of the 20th century. Research began in the 1970’s when visionaries Leo Bustad, a veterinarian, Michael McCulloch, a psychiatrist, his brother William McCulloch, a veterinarian, and several other veterinarians formed The Delta Foundation, now known as Pet Partners. The organization was originally founded to pioneer the scientific study of the health benefits of the human-animal bond.

In part because of the efforts of this organization over the past 36 years, there are now several classifications and uses of domestic animals, many of which can be very helpful for children with special needs.

Service dog
Abilities Through Agility 2A service dog is one that is specially trained to perform a task or tasks that alleviate an owner/handler’s disability. Individuals who utilize service dogs are protected under the Americans with Disabilities Act to have their dog accompany them into most public places. The ADA no longer recognizes any species other than dogs (or in some cases miniature horses) as service animal.

These amazing dogs can be trained to help children with autism, cognitive disorders, mobility limitations, seizures and to alert someone in the case of a medical emergency. There are hundreds of service animal training organizations across the country, but still there is a high demand in relation to a limited supply of dogs. If you are interested in researching the advantages of a service dog, it is never too soon to start the process. Pet Partners has an extensive online directory of service dog trainers: www.petpartners.org/servicedogtrainerdirectory. This directory can be searched by state and disability training type. Please note that these organizations are not necessarily recommended by Pet Partners; their inclusion is meant only as a resource. You are encouraged to read this section of their website for further information and consumer considerations: www.petpartners.org/ConsumerInfo.

Emotional Support Animal
JudyBinNun20191Providing comfort and security, emotional support animals (ESAs) can be very valuable to a family with a special needs child. Although they may also perform some type of “work” for their owner, it is mostly the pet’s mere presence alone that is beneficial. “Unconditional love,” despite the limitations or appearance of their owners, is what most people describe as the biggest benefit gained from the bonds with these animals. People who own ESAs are protected under the Fair Housing Act to keep these animals in a public housing situation, but the property manager has the right to ask for documentation from a health care provider that the animal(s) is necessary for the person’s health and well-being. As with the ADA, however, the Fair Housing Act requires that the animal does not alter the environment for others; s/he must be held on a leash in public areas, must be well-controlled, clean and quiet. For more information about the Fair Housing Act as it relates to assistance animals, please visit http://www.hud.gov/offices/pih/programs/ph/rhiip/phguidebooknew.pdf, section 16.1.

Companion Animal or Pet
Although there is no legal definition for these types of animals, research has proven the therapeutic effects of having a pet in the household. For example:

  • Owning a pet enhances a child’s self-esteem.

  • Having pets teaches children responsibility and respect towards other living beings.

  • Children owning a pet are more involved in activities such as sports, hobbies, clubs or chores.


Pet Partners’ website has a vast library of articles, abstracts, book references, etc. detailing the beneficial effects of the human-animal bond: https://petpartners.org/Health_Benefits_for_Children.

Animal-Assisted Therapy
Animal-Assisted Therapy (AAT) is a relatively recent treatment adjunct for many healthcare professions. AAT can be a significant part of treatment for many people who are physically, socially, emotionally or cognitively challenged. These sessions are more than just “fun” time with an animal; they are goal-oriented, therapist-guided visits with specific desired progress and outcomes. The benefits of AAT are many:

  • Improved fine motor skills

  • Improved balance

  • Lowered blood pressure and heart rate

  • Increased verbal interaction

  • Increased attention

  • Reduced anxiety

  • Increased vocabulary

  • Improved memory


To find a professional that incorporates AAT into his/her practice, please visit www.petpartners.org/aatprofessionals.

Animal-Assisted Activities
DSC_6617Visiting animal programs are increasingly popular in hospitals, medical centers, nursing homes, schools and other facilities. Pet Partners registers appropriate pets with their owners as therapy animal teams after the “human end of the leash” passes a comprehensive training program and the team passes an evaluation performed by a licensed Pet Partners Team Evaluator.

In institutions where animals are not usually allowed, these visits provide a welcome respite for patients from painful treatments, loneliness and boredom. For children with learning disorders, the presence of a therapy animal can create a comfortable atmosphere where the children exhibit more confidence and readiness to learn.

Pet Partners is the only national therapy animal organization that registers species other than dogs with their owners to provide therapeutic visits to patients in hospitals, nursing homes, schools, etc. Cats, horses, guinea pigs and birds are some of the other animals that are welcome.

To learn more about Pet Partners visit www.petpartners.org or watch their promotional video...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCXXxfVCA6Y&width=500&height=350&autoplay=0&rel=0



Contributed by Paula Scott-Ginn- Marketing Coordinator / Service Animal Resources with Petpartners

Friday, October 18, 2013

The Feldenkrais Method: Movement in Mind

felden2In a comfortable, airy room strewn with exercise mats, a Feldenkrais teacher guides her students verbally, as they move their bodies slowly and gently. She invites them to explore a sequence of easy movements, and then to rest, noticing whether one of their legs feels longer than the other. Then, she asks them to notice whether it feels easier when they turn toward the left, or the right. Each student pays attention to his or her own experience, tilting, turning, or gently lengthening an arm or a leg. These movements are extremely simple, but unlike most other forms of exercise, each movement is also packed with valuable neurological information. The movements in a Feldenkrais exercise are functionally based and meaningful, and provide the brain with a therapeutic opportunity in which it can assist the body. When the exercise is finished, the students stand up and walk around the room to explore how they are now feeling. Many will report feeling refreshed and capable, in ways they had long forgotten.

Across town, an 11 year old boy, who broke two ribs while playing sports six months ago, lies down, fully dressed on a low table for an individual Feldenkrais treatment. Though his ribs have technically “healed”, he complains that he can't breathe deeply the way he used to. The practitioner quietly uses gentle touch along the child’s spine to help him regain confidence in the flexibility and function of his entire upper torso. The practitioner does not focus on the youngster's injury, pathology, or diagnosis. Instead, he creates possibilities for improvement by facilitating a natural process of sensory motor learning in the child's brain. As the child takes his first deep breath in months, he smiles with relief.

The exercise class and the private session are two forms of a somatic therapy called the Feldenkrais Method. Offering abroad range of benefits for people of all ages and abilities, this unusual technique uses the power of the brain to help the body.

Often, necessity is the mother of invention. The Feldenkrais Method is one such case, created by a physicist and engineer named Moshe Feldenkrais when he lost the ability to use his legs after a series of
serious knee injuries. Determined to find a solution, he applied his understanding of physics, motor development, biomechanics, psychology, and martial arts, and not only restored his ability to walk,
but also developed the work for which he is known today. Over and over again, Feldenkrais found that given the right sort of opportunity, the brain can improve the body's comfort and function. Feldenkrais created exercises to help every part of the body, and devised a mode of hands on treatment rooted in the fact that when the brain is offered new options for our posture and movement, it will naturally choose better ones on our body's behalf. Simple movements done with basic home grown awareness, Feldenkrais discovered, are the best way to communicate effectively with the brain and nervous system.

Instead of focusing on symptoms, the Feldenkrais Method works by improving the body’s underlying neuromuscular and skeletal organization. Although we know that body and mind are exquisitely intertwined, few of us understand the profound connection between our habitual posture and our psychological habit patterns. We assume that we simply “are” the way we are, and while caught in a web of unconscious patterns, believe that we have only one way of doing things. What the Feldenkrais Method does, is to restore our sense of having options and choices. Georgetown University neuroscientist Karl Pribram once said, “Feldenkrais is not just pushing muscles around, but changing things in the brain itself.” With better muscular and skeletal organization, many aspects of our physical comfort and functioning can change and improve. By engaging the brain’s plasticity, or ability to change, Feldenkrais gives us an opportunity to change even our most engrained habits of posture and movement.

The Feldenkrais Method is available in two complimentary forms. The exercises, also called Awareness Through Movement lessons, are presented verbally to a group, or can be done independently at home. Feldenkrais treatment sessions, also called Functional Integration lessons, involve a hands on approach, as a practitioner individualizes the work. Both forms of the Feldenkrais Method are safe, enjoyable, and can be immediately effective.

feldenAs the Feldenkrais Method steadily gains recognition, people are increasingly turning to it for help with a wide range of issues. Some people use it to speed their recovery from injury, or because they wish
to avoid the physical limitations commonly associated with aging. Others use it to reduce tension, or to improve athletic abilities. It is being embraced by performing artists all over the world, by parents of
children with developmental issues, and people dealing with the aches caused by long days spent sitting in front of computer screens.

The famous anthropologist, Margaret Mead, once said that, “the Feldenkrais Method is the most sophisticated and effective method I have seen for the prevention and reversal of deterioration of function.” Well worth exploring, the Feldenkrais Method offers each person an opportunity in which they can experience their potential for improvement. Sometimes, all we need to do is remember what feeling better feels like.

If you would like to know more about this type of therapy, you may also be interested in How We Can Be More Effective Agents of Transformation and the Importance of Awareness Through Movement or any of the other articles available by David Zemach-Bersin.

Contributed by David Zemach-Bersin

Friday, October 11, 2013

Whole Body Medicines for Special Kids

cranioOne of the major benefits of alternative medical practices is their actualization of methods that incorporate the whole body and all of its systems into diagnostic criteria and treatment methods. When looking at the body as ONE integrated system, rather than it’s component parts, patterns of illness and imbalance emerge. These patterns are unique to each child, but are part of a larger ordered pattern of body processes. Just as a farmer would look to find the source of disease if his crops began to fail rather than simply pulling out the plants that are ill, alternative medicines is guided by the understanding that the parts of the body work together and rely on one another to maintain a healthy environment.

CranioSacral Therapy is one such “whole body medicine”. It is so named, because it relies on the subtle movement of the cerebral spinal fluid (CSF) housed between the cranium (head) and the sacrum (tail bone). The influx of CSF into and out of the cranial base causes a gentle flexion and extension of the whole body around the spinal chord as the CSF pressure increases and decreases in a wave-like motion. Because the entire body moves with the rhythm of the CSF, CranioSacral Therapists can feel areas of restriction in the body’s movements. Treatment consists of the gentle pseudo-energetic application of pressure to areas of restriction to remove any constraint. Like taking the tension out of an overstretched rubber band or the emotional release that comes with a well-timed hug, tissues in the body begin to unwind, eliminating restriction and improving local function.

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An older and more well-known “whole body medicine” is Chinese Medicine. This ancient healing art consists of acupuncture, acupressure, cupping, moxibustion, herbs, dietary therapy, energetic healing methods such as qi gong and tai chi, as well as, the more modern techniques of electric stimulation and laser therapy. The foundation of Chinese Medicine is that the body is one integrated operating system in which the internal organs support and control the functional activities of the other organs and the body as a whole. The methods used in Chinese Medicine are very gentle and work with the body’s natural processes to help strengthen and align bodily systems.

Both of these systems of medicine can be extraordinarily helpful to kids with special needs. Dealing with the often immense health issues that come with certain disabilities, it is important to make sure that the body is functioning at its optimal capacity, so healing can occur wherever possible. CranioSacral Therapy and Chinese Medicine work with the body to ensure that it is working at its best, supporting growth and encouraging function.

For more information, or if you would like to give these therapies a try, contact Bee Well Kids in Los Angles and/or Las Vegas, or search for a Chinese Medicine provider near you.

Contributed by Naomi Richman

Friday, October 4, 2013

Music Therapy

music4As a traveling music therapist, I spend all day driving through the Texas sun, hauling guitars, drums, and tambourines from house to house, but still the hardest part about my job is answering, "What is music therapy?". The American Music Therapy Association (AMTA) defines music therapy as "the clinical and evidence-based use of music interventions to accomplish individualized goals within a therapeutic relationship by a credentialed professional who has completed an approved music therapy program".

...Am I watching an episode of ABC's Lost because I feel like I have more questions than answers after reading that definition! Don't worry, because I am here to break down that definition and give you as many answers as possible about the field in which I work.

music1First things first, what do music therapists do? My go-to answer for this question is to compare it to something everyone knows. Music therapists are similar to physical therapists, speech therapists and/or occupational therapists in that we are working with clients to improve their quality of life. The areas mainly focused on are physical, emotional, cognitive, and social needs. Through music therapy, clients learn social and communication skills; they learn how to appropriately express themselves through improved emotional processing; they can increase fine and gross motor skills; even stress and pain management can be learned through music therapy treatment. We are not teaching people how to play instruments, but rather using music as our therapeutic medium to increase those areas that are deficient in the clients lives. This would be the "clinical use of music interventions to accomplish individualized goals" of the definition.

The second most common question is who can benefit from music therapy? The short answer: anyone! Really, it's true. Music therapists across the US and throughout the world work with clients in all types of settings and with all types of needs, ranging from dementia to mothers in labor. AMTA has an excellent definition of who can benefit from music therapy. They say "Children, adolescents, adults, and the elderly with mental health needs, developmental and learning disabilities, Alzheimer's disease and other aging related conditions, substance abuse problems, brain injuries, physical disabilities, and acute and chronic pain, including mothers in labor all benefit from music therapy". So going back to the short answer, anyone with a general desire and enjoyment of music can benefit from music therapy treatment. With that being said, there is a common misconception that you have to be musical or have "musical talent" to benefit from music therapy, but that is not the case. Again, we are not teaching music, we are using the therapeutic properties of music to increase skill areas.

music2Once someone learns about music therapy and what we as therapists do, the last question is usually where do you work? This is different for every therapist. I myself work through the Medicaid waiver program -
CLASS - providing one on one, in-home services for children and adolescents with developmental and learning disabilities. I have also been contracted through school districts here in Texas to work with a few children with developmental and/or learning disabilities whose parents have requested music therapy to be incorporated into their child's Individual Education Plan (IEP). And finally because I enjoy working with the elderly, I reached out to some local rehabilitation centers and am contracted through four nursing homes in the Austin, TX area to provide monthly group sessions for elderly dealing with dementia and Alzheimer's disease. This may seem like a crazy set up, but I'm pretty sure my situation is the exception. Other therapists have private practices where they have a studio and all their clients come to them. Still other full time therapists work solely in hospitals, one school district, a nursing home, or a psychiatric facility.

Going back to that initial definition, the "credentialed professional" is indeed the music therapist. We, as certified music therapists, do have to obtain at least a four year degree in music therapy. Most of us leave college with a bachelor of science in music therapy. We are trained heavily in music theory and music therapy as well as biology, psychology, social and behavioral sciences, and general studies. After we have completed all the course work, we are required to complete an AMTA approved internship usually lasting 6-9 months depending on when the student completes the required 1200 hours of clinical experience. Lastly, we are required to pass a board certification exam to become a board-certified music therapist (MT-BC).

Throughout this article, I have continuously referenced the national association, AMTA because they do a fantastic job informing people who we are and what we do as a profession. If you have any remaining questions about music therapy, www.musictherapy.org is a great place to start. You can find therapists in your area, see where they are working and whether or not music therapy is funded through a waiver program or an insurance provider. I also have a website if you would like to know more about me or are in Austin and want to learn more about what I do in the area. Roads of Connection Music Therapy is where you can find my information. It's common for people to still have questions about our field, don't hesitate to contact a music therapist in your area to gain more insight.
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Contributed by Danielle Baumgartner, MT-BC

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Parking

accessible_parkingI had a very weird thing happen today and thought I would share. First a little back story. We got a disabled parking placard for our daughter, Casey, MANY years ago (I think she was only 4-6 months old when we got our first one). Between the amount of equipment we have to carry for her, and now her being in a wheelchair, accessible parking makes sense.

When we first got it we had a placard that hung from the rear-view mirror. This is pretty common. There were details with the application as well as with the placard explaining that it is only legal to use accessible parking with the person named on the placard in the vehicle. We had to include medical letters and all kinds of stuff.

When we purchased a modified van with the ramp we changed from the placard to a disabled plate, but the same laws apply. When I have Casey in the car or my grandpa (as he has his own placard too) I will use the spots. Without either of them in the car, I park in non-accessible spots. First, it's the law, but even if it were not the law I would still do this.

There have been many times I have gone somewhere with Casey and not been able to find a spot. When this happens we either forgo the outing all together, circle until one opens up (possibly making us late for whatever we are doing), or I have to drop her and her nurse off at the door while I then go park and rush back to join them. When spots are not available it makes that outing very stressful and at times you could even say there is some added risk to her health (I won't get into all of those reasons, but with a compromised immune system and intolerance to heat and allergens you can probably figure out some of the risk). That being said, I know there are many other people in the same situation. So, if I do not need the accessible spot I don't use it so others that do need it may.

parkingBack to today... I went to run some errands, leaving Casey at home with her nurse. One of the stops I made was the post office (or postal station). There were 2 spots up front, then another 8 or so across the way. The 2 up front were 1 accessible spot and 1 general parking. It was just me, so I parked in the general parking spot and went inside. While I was filling out my papers a man came in. He was very angry and yelling at the attendants about something. I just minded my own business while this was happening (I wish I had been paying attention). He then stormed out and the attendants were talking to each other. I heard one say something to the effect of "What was he expecting, you don't have to park in the accessible spot just because you can..." This is when I realized he was angry and yelling about me. WTH!! I asked the attendants exactly what he was complaining about to find out that he was angry that he had to walk across the way (like 30 feet) because there was a disabled vehicle parked in the non-disable spot. I was so caught off guard by this, and really mad. I explained the law to attendants and said "as you can see, I do not have my disabled passenger with me." I asked if the man was still around as I would LOVE to educate him on the laws as well as a few others things. I guess it is a good thing he had already left. I would have tore into him if he was still there.

I'm still really angry about the entire situation though and thought I would share this story with all of you. Hopefully someone will eventually tell him how it actually works. This is the opposite of the common issues you hear and see with accessible spots. Usually it is people parking there to "just run in" when they are not legally parked at all. I hear a lot of stories about people parking (legally) in these spots to only get yelled at by other drivers. They may not have a visible disability and so others assume that they have illegally gotten a placard or plates somehow. If you are reading this, please remember that not all disabilities are visible. There are many people that need to have quick access to their vehicles for so many reasons. Also, there are many people with mitochondrial disorders (or many other disorders) that may be able to walk when they are leaving the car, but their muscles give out before they can make it back. You may see what appears to be a healthy person entering a store, but they may return in a wheelchair. Don't assume you know better. If they have a placard or plates, they had to provide medical proof that they need the spot. Occasionally you will have people abuse it and park in the spot without their disabled passenger. Sadly there is nothing we can do about these people. Hopefully they will need a spot at some point and not find one to then realize that they should not abuse their permit.

Rant over, I just really wanted to get that off my chest. Lets all follow the traffic laws and try to be kind to one another.

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Angels

2014


Jonathan Rodriguez
August 4, 2014
There is not a day I don't think about him and his big smile despite all of his pain. Mommy loves you to the moon.

Violet Ai Xin Hasenmyer
8-1/2 months old
April 12, 2014
Our first born and the first of our twins; you are our perfect child. Not a day goes by that we don't think fondly of you and miss you tremendously. Your spirit and strength inspire us daily. Diagnosis at 6 weeks old - Prader-Willi Syndrome.

2013


Stephen Benjamin Shifferly
4 years old
December 1, 2013
He is now our Advent Angel. Leukodystrophy claimed another life, but he kept his
smile to the very end.

Victoria Sofia Rodriguez Baez
10 months old
August 1st 2013
You will always be in our hearts and you only gain your wings because you were already an angel on earth. We miss you so much!

Edward Richard Clyde Higgins (EJ)
2 years old
October 5, 2013
Born 28/1/2011. At 27 week 1000g. Grew angel wings 10/5/2013. Disability -Ceribal palsy. Made the most of life, Our little champion

Shelby Anne Dolinsek
18 years old
June 9th, 2013
In my heart forever

Kaitlyn Lee Mincey
10 years old
April 24, 2013
For a baby who wasn't supposed to live more than 15 minutes off the breathing machine, Kaitlyn was almost 10 years old. She was an angel on earth and now is a angel in heaven. We miss her more and more everyday!! She is in heaven walking and talking and watching down on us ♥

Isaac Michael Huether
10 months
March 25, 2013
Remained undiagnosed. Isaac, you have taught us so much, we miss and love you baby boy. Love, Mommy, Daddy, Sissy (who is due in July) and Grandma

Misty May Mondragon
27 years
March 21, 2013
Miracle after miracle now you can run, dance and sing with the angels, we love you my precious baby girl.

Emma Ryleigh McPherson
3 months
March 7, 2013
Our precious twin baby girl. Always in our thoughts and forever loved and missed.

Noah Matthew James
March 7, 2013
weighing 2 lbs 7 oz. Was 27 1/2 weeks prego. My sweet little guy!

Peyton Michael Joseph Sandlin
10 years
March 2, 2013.
Only expected to live months, far surpassed all expectations in his 10 years. Peyt you are and always will be my miracle, my heart, and my soul... I will see you again when God gives you back to me...

Hayden Alexander Barnes
6 years and 340 days old
January 16, 2013
Forever united with Quad(ruplet) Power to his 2 sisters and brother. Always on our minds and forever in our hearts.

2012


James Clayton Arnold Henry "JC"
Age 21.
December 12, 2012
Love you Buddy

Selah Gracelynn Rose Fessenden
6 months
December 10, 2012
Born to soon, gone to soon. Forever 6mo.

Addiason Ann Cannon
2.5 years
November 27, 2012
She was a true blessing from God and we were very blessed to have been chosen to be her parents !!! She was always smiling , happy and loved everyone .......

Parker Lee Reynolds
2.5 years
October 20, 2012
The world is a brighter place for having Parker in it. She touched lives daily and still continues to through The Parker Lee Project. May her spirit and legacy live on forever.

Josiah James Lorenzini
3 years
October 18, 2012
Josiah passed away at the age of 3 from Menkes Disease. He was the stongest little guy and forever my hero.

Jeremiah A. Summers
6 months
July 15, 2012.
a good baby now an angel watchin over his big brother jawuan and me.

Kale Evan Kirk
45 days old
June 21, 2012
We miss and love you so much, our warrior, fighter, rock, and reason for continuing.

Jeremiah A. Summers
6 months
July 15. 2012
a good baby now an angel watchin over his big brother jawuan and me.

Shelby Anne Dolinsek
18 years
June 9, 2012
In my heart forever

Riley James McCoy
4 1/2 years
March 19, 2012
We miss you baby boy! Love, mommy, daddy, Jesse, and Evan.

2011


Daniel Jonathon Flinton
4 years
November 11, 2011
Our little soldier, who taught us so much, we feel you with us everyday.

Blake Mittelstaedt
17 years
August 18, 2011
We were given the gift of 17 precious years with you! Thank you for
all the life lessons you taught us, and I can't wait till I get
another "hugger" from you! I love you and miss you buddy!

Collin William Neese
6 years (almost 7)
March 23, 2011
Our "Little Soldier" and now our "Little Angel" He was always smiling and giving. He was always thinking of others before himself. He passed away of Neuroblastoma cancer and SOS. Mommy loves and misses you!

Kaysen Preston Zeller
February 10, 2011
Identical twin brother and guardian angel of Tysen.

2010


Megan Kate Gawalek
13 years
November 9, 2010
She knew few words, but could Always sing like an angel.

Amber Margaret Dougherty
Almost 4 years old
September 2, 2010

Marin Paige Mobley
1 month
August 8, 2010
Two of God's greatest gifts and most beautiful Angels in Heaven.

2009


Addysen Kay TerBeest
Just a few hours
December 1, 2009
Just a few hours old was called to heaven. Miss u everyday baby girl!

Jordan Anthony Fuhrman
15 years ( 2weeks shy of 16)
November 18, 2009
He loved God, church, music, Disney and his family and friends. His favorite show was scooby doo.

Jayden Brice Ross
1 month old
June 26, 2009
My precious twin boys! Miss u boys so much!

Aila Teagan Mobley
7 months
June 6, 2009
Two of God's greatest gifts and most beautiful Angels in Heaven.

Brayden Joshua Ross
3 days old
May 28, 2009
My precious twin boys! Miss u boys so much!

2008


Joshua Timothy Theriault
13 years
December 30th, 2008
He may not have been able to talk but he sure made a huge impact on many people!

Evy Lee Anne Billman
16 years
February 23, 2008
She became my miracle on Easter Sunday 1999 after a horrible car accident. She became my angel Feb 23, 2008. We love and miss you always!

Zephyrus Atiyyah McCartney
5 1/2 years old
February 8, 2008
We love you so much! Until we meet again, you will stay in our hearts. Love, Mommy, Mama, Coltrane, Sullivan, Laila & Judah

2007


Christian Joseph Matthews
5 months old
August 28, 2007
Our beloved twin son. He was a sweet, precious baby, and his twin brother and the rest of us still miss him so much.

Cameron Paul Croteau
3 years
July 26,2007
Forever 3 yrs & 3 mos old.

2005


Kirstyn Renee' Samuell
5 Hours
November 2, 2005
Lives forever in our hearts.

2001


Hailey Hope Carriere
1 month
March 17, 2001
we see you every day in your twin sister you are free every year we send up a birthday balloon with a note sending love your way

1997


Kaleb John Pann
May 13, 1997
he is missed everyday n especially by his twin brother Colton who is here with us.. 16 is right around the corner for Colton. I always wondered how it would have been if kaleb lived..he is our angel n I miss him everyday. Luv u baby boy rip kaleb...

1996


Angel Rae Nichols
November 1, 1996
I held you in my arms for a short time, now your in the arms of Jesus.

1995


Kayleigh Roddy
22 months
July 25, 1995
we all love and miss you everyday

1993


Benjamin Philip Sokolowski
born sleeping
August 20, 1993
Born 12:59 am.1lb 12oz..had light brown hair..i loved hearing your heartbeat and kicks for the magical 22 weeks. years later i still wish you were here with me.

1988


Annette
2 Months
October 03, 1989
My heart goes out to all the Mommies and everything that they may be going through.

1988


Christopher Lee Seymour
3 days
September 7, 1988
He will always be in our hearts and we will never forget him, God saw that he was way to small to fight the battle that he was facing and so he made him our little angel ...We love and miss you Christopher ...Mom and Dad

1986


Melissa
3 Months
January 19, 1986
Congestive Heart Failure. I want all the Mommies to know that each and every day I am praying for you and your Special One.

Roy Meehan
10 years
December 28, 1986
two beautiful babies who fought so hard to stay here with me x

1984


Garry Mikel Barnes
just under 2 minutes
April 28, 1984
I wish I had gotten to know my baby boy's personality and been able to shower him in hugs and kisses...

Anthony
2 Months
October 05, 1984
Born w/ 1 lungs & only 1 kidney.

1979


John Joseph Lochner Jr.
1 year
June 1st, 1979
Forever in our hearts my baby.

1978


Rebecca Meehan
May 17, 1978
two beautiful babies who fought so hard to stay here with me x

1977


David Lee Kroger
October 24, 1977
I miss you every day.